Wednesday, October 16, 2024

INTERVIEW: Personal Growth Author Vince Guaglione

 



























Vince Guaglione
Raleigh NC

Good morning, Vince and welcome back to Vision and Verse, 
the Place for Art and Authors.What have you been up to?
NI’ve published twelve short works as an independent author, the core 
of which can be found in the personal growth/personal transformation 
genre. My personal growth series is titled “The Narratives,” and can 
best be described as my own unique brand of journal writing. I started 
these works in late 2012 as a means of calming my brain and refocusing 
my energy after losing my significant other to suicide.  I needed to do 
something to make sense of what I was feeling and to cope with her 
passing, and out of this came my first book, "The Narratives: Keeping 
the Soul Alive." In it, and in the other books in the series, I write mostly 
about my own struggles while navigating my path towards healing, and 
then towards self-actualization. In looking back on all seven of these 
works, I can easily see the shift I made as I transitioned through 
grieving my loss into a period of acceptance and reconciliation, and 
then into an unexpected but welcomed phase of life—one that led me 
down the road of personal discovery, and one that forced me to confront 
some very difficult question along the way.  Questions such as what I 
see for myself going forward, what I want out of life, what makes me 
happy, and am I being the best I can be, are all touched on, and the 
emotions that are a byproduct of these thoughts are on display for the 
reader to soak in. Essentially, these works can best be summed up as 
my journey through the last five or so years of my life.


























In addition to “The Narratives” series, I have also written two other 
transformational works titled, “From Thoughts To Written Words: 
Learn To Journal From The Soul,” which is a short reference (or “how 
to” guide) to journal writing, and “Is There More To Life Than Just 
This?  10 Simple Steps for Solving Your Mystery Questions of Life 
and Unlocking Your Happiness,” which provides strategies for those 
who are struggling to find meaning in life, who are searching for 
purpose, and who have ever asked that question, “Is this really all 
that life has to offer?”  The answers are easier to find that you might 
think.

In addition to my personal transformation works, I have also written two fictional shorts and a book of dark poetry.  The fictional pieces are titled, “Chasing Angels” and “Eva,” and the poetry is titled, “In The Dark Recesses…”

I just finished reading Eva. A gripping tale of grief and love. Loved it.
What is your favorite genre to write?
The core of what I write is non-fiction, most often categorized as memoir, 
and is entirely about my own personal growth and life experiences, 
but also I enjoy fiction.  It’s hard to pick one specific genre because 
they are both so different. In one, I’m writing about me – my innermost 
thoughts, feelings, and fears. In the other, I’m telling a story.  But I do 
find that even in my fictional pieces, I’m pulling parts of myself into 
my main character. The best advice I’ve ever received about writing is 
to write what you know. I’ve tried to honor that so it’s not surprising 
that all of these works boils down to a personal struggle - the battle to 
overcome - and this is readily apparent in both genres.  But, in all 
honesty, I would love to write a suspense/thriller. I started building a 
plot for one that also pulled in some elements of romance and the 
metaphysical, but I haven’t reconciled it just yet. When I do, I may go 
ahead and attempt to write it, however, there’s a good chance that it 
might remain just a plot. Fiction is definitely not my forte.













Favorite food.
Pizza

Tea or coffee?
I’m a coffee addict.  I have an affinity for Starbucks coffee and I’ve 
made my local Starbucks my second home.  I do all my writing there.

Pizza or ice cream?
Do I have to choose?

No, you don't. YOU get both, because you are one of the most patient 
and understanding people I know. Where would you like to visit?
I’ve never been outside North America but I plan on visiting the 
Scandinavian countries, Greenland, and Iceland before my time is up.

Vince, you must go to Italy. Don't we have mutual relatives from Sicily? 
I think so. Who is your favorite musical artist? Do you listen to music 
when you write?  What?
I have lots of favorite artists, mostly in the rock genre, and don’t 
normally listen to music when I write.  When I do, I usually try to 
find something mellow in my collection. It just depends on my mood.


What makes you laugh?
I have a Jerry Seinfeld sense of humor so I usually find humor in 
everyday life.  I think I’ve got a little of both Jerry Seinfeld and 
George Costanza in me. I can relate to both characters.  Some of 
these personality traits certainly come through in my writing.


How old were you when you started writing?
I started writing in a journal at the age of 13.  Initially, I documented 
what I could remember of vivid dreams I had as a young adult, but 
then transitioned into journaling, then to short fiction.  Throughout my 
formative years, I kept a journal, so it’s not surprising that the core 
of what I’ve put in the public domain is my 2017 version of journaling.

Describe your perfect evening.
I love meeting new people and love socializing.  To get a chance to talk 
to lots of interesting and fun people in a social setting is actually the 
perfect evening for me.  It’s funny that as a young adult, I was actually 
very shy. Now, I can’t wait to talk to someone new!



Where do you get your inspiration?
For my Narratives works, I get most 
of my inspiration through everyday 
life.  I’m learning new things about 
myself all the time. Sometimes, all 
it takes is an interaction to show you 
something about yourself you’ve 
never recognized before.  When those 
moments reveal themselves, I write 
about them.




For my short fiction pieces, I find I’m drawn to the metaphysical.  It’s 
an area that has always fascinated me. It gets me thinking about what’s 
really possible.  I usually wind up entertaining those thoughts then 
crafting a story around some aspect of the phenomenon.

What do you do when you get a writer's block?
I don’t block often because my process is very structured.  When I 
come up with a new idea or concept, I map it out in my head then 
outline it, particularly for my fictional pieces.  My Narratives essays 
are short so I can usually write what’s in my head in one sitting. But 
for fiction, I don’t actually start the writing process until I have a clear 
outline, and that makes it easy to just go.  But on the oft chance I do 
block, I take that time to think up ideas for future works rather than 
try to force the issue.

Who is your favorite author?
That’s a good question.  I love reading horror, suspense, and thrillers 
so I’d have to say Stephen King is my favorite.

I HEAR Carol Ann Kauffman's pretty good, too. Best book you ever 
read.
That’s a difficult question to answer.  If I take a look at my reading 
history as an adult, most of what I’ve read sits in the political, 
economic, sociological, and investigative journaling categories.  
I read select thrillers and horror, although not as much as I did as a 
young adult. To pick one book is difficult, however, one of my all-time 
favorites is a book titled “Into Thin Air” by Jon Krakauer, which 
documented the 1996 climbing disaster on Mt. Everest.

Who is the one person who has influenced your personal life the 
most and why?

I did a lot of bowling throughout my 20s and 30s and was lucky enough 
to find a man who did a lot more than just coach me in the sport.  He is 
the person who has had the biggest influence on my life. He was the 
toughest coach I’ve ever had but more than being a great bowling coach, 
he was an unbelievable life coach.  I used to think the world owed me 
something. He was the one person who was able to knock that chip 
off my shoulder, make me face my fears square in the eye, and make me 
take responsibility for my life.  He’s no longer with us, but will always 
be one of the finest human beings I have ever known, and I will forever 
be grateful for his role in turning me into the person I am today.

If you could sit down and have a conversation with ONE person, 
living or dead, real or fictional, who would it be and why?
I’d have to say Thomas Jefferson, or any of the founding fathers of this 
country.  How they had such foresight in crafting the U.S. Constitution 
is quite amazing to me.  They were incredible people who were far 
ahead of their time.


What advice would you give 
someone who aspired to be a writer?
The best advice I can give anyone is 
to be authentic.  Don’t try to be 
something or someone you’re not.  
Readers can see right through that.  
Believe in yourself and do it because 
you love it, not because you hope to 
be the next best-selling author.  I started 
off with one idea, entirely in an effort to 
redirect my energy, and wound up with 
enough material to entertain the idea to 
self-publish.  I never believed my works 
would become commercially successful, 
nor had any idea if what I’d written was 
any good, but I felt that this was something I needed to do.  Anyone can 
publish these days, but if you decide to go this route, ensure that you’re 
putting the best product out that you possibly can. Once it’s in the 
public domain, it’s there for the world to see.  For me, it was about 
telling my story and leaving a legacy. Be authentic, be honest, and 
don’t be afraid to share your gifts with the world.

Do you have some links for us to follow you?
My social media links:

Amazon:             http://amzn.to/1h3puT3

Facebook:           http://on.fb.me/1ruQa48

Pinterest:           http://bit.ly/1oOBA7v
Goodreads:        http://bit.ly/1fdPKz7












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